Backpacking life (9) – Charming Seville

Spain was the next country to visit during my first European trip in 2014 (wow, almost three years ago). There are so many reasons to go there that I couldn’t list all, honestly. Football (Real Madrid x Barcelona to say the least), music, dance (flamenco fascinates me), history and several promises of good food and drink. So here we go!

With some help, suggestions and lots of advice from Spanish fellows I met along the way in Dublin, little by little I mapped out a plan: to access the country on the road from Lisbon, then Granada (highly recommended), Madrid (exciting just to hear its name) and Barcelona (a dream of almost all beginner travellers).

I reached Seville in the morning, very early – so early that I considered taking a nap on any corner at the bus station before moving on. However, I had to find my hostel and, of course, that would take some time as I hardly ever find my accommodation painlessly. Quite an hour later (yes, that much to find it), I came across the house, an old and impressive building in a historic part of the city (everything seems is historic there, though). Quickly I met the owner, who told me about a flamenco show in the evening. As the attraction was a must-see for me, I booked my ticket right away. According to him, that presentation would be the best in town. I don’t know if I trusted him very much, but it seemed a good deal. Twenty euro or something like that, but that was fine. I’m quite tight-fisted when I travel (I’m joking, I am a bit stingy all the time), but I do believe it’s morally wrong to set foot in Seville and don’t see people dancing flamenco, as the dance appeared exactly in that town.

 

Sevilla Dream Hostel, my ‘house’ during two days in town 

 

Evening plans were scheduled, so it was time to explore the city. Seville is colourful and full of picturesque buildings. You breathe history there.

The trip would also be an opportunity to use my Spanish, as I was able to speak it fairly well (fairly well = broken Spanish, but still useful). In a bakery, I did my best to order my breakfast in that language, you know, somehow you want to feel a local for a while. I opened my mouth and… no Spanish. I was struggling to utter something, but only English came up, and eventually, the girl behind the counter asked me in English if I wanted something. Of course, a blonde girl having tremendous trouble to pronounce a couple of simple words… un café y un bocadillo… I felt quite embarrassed not because of the fact itself, as workers there must be too busy to notice someone’s effort to speak their language, but bloody hell I had studied Spanish for months. I had travelled to Colombia, interviewed people on the phone in the middle of protests in Paraguay and translated loads of articles. How come you can’t order a fucking coffee?

I put the frustration behind, though, as I didn’t have time for language failures. I should focus on exploring the town and all its precious buildings. Churches, old houses, small shops and beautiful balconies which seem to be a mark in Spanish architecture. The Cathedral of Sevilla is obviously fantastic, but even more was the chance to see many people, locals and tourists, up and down around the marvellous construction and its medieval walls.

 

Have a look at THIS place – the famous cathedral in Seville and one of the biggest in the world

 

Although my Spanish was poor, at least it was enough to understand signs and inscriptions in monuments, what enriched my experience there. I noticed that tables and chairs are placed outside bars, which reminded me of our Brazilian bars. After ages feeling “locked” in Irish pubs (usually with their doors closed) was way pleasant to be in a “Latin” environment.

Dead on my feet, in the evening I went to the hostel to have a shower and rest a little, and afterwards, I headed for the flamenco show. It paid off, certainly. Great dancers, enchanting music. Some people were also having dinner during the attraction, drinking wine and so on, but I couldn’t spend money like water, so watching the stuff was more than satisfying.

 

I just love going window shopping when I travel to see what each town has in particular

 

Next morning, I went downstairs for breakfast (I NEVER skip breakfast in hostels as it’s usually free and it can support you for hours during the day) and, having eaten a lot of bread and milk and cereal, I went for a tour at “El Patio Sevillano”, a place where toradas still take place. I pretty much know that the practice is loathsome and shameful, but I couldn’t help myself visiting one of those arenas which were scenarios for Hemingway’s stories.

You learn a lot about Spanish culture there and I do hope that this “sport” can be prohibited, so as to people can enter the building to know more about horrible events which inflicted pain to so many innocent animals.

I kept strolling around Seville (certainly my feet hated me at that time) trying to absorb all that history, its colours and details that tell so many stories that couldn’t be learned in only forty-eight hours.

Surely Plaza de España was one of the places that impressed me most in Spain. It’s hard to believe that the construction is new, as it really seems from centuries ago.

In my second (and last) evening, I hung out with Raquel and Valle, who I had met in Dublin during a Couchsurfing event months before. They helped me preparing the trip and it was such a pleasure to chat with them. I’m against the idea that your travels are only worth if you spend time with locals (sometimes you can’t do that), but when you can, gosh, your trip become so special. Not only did the girls meet me in a weekly evening, but also paid the whole bill. No words to thank them!

After our meal (diverse types of tapas and beers), they wished me a good trip to Granada, my next destination. I went back to the hostel (only men in the mixed room, but it turned out well) to get some sleep and be grateful to the universe for all my good moments.

The most surprising thing about Seville, though, I found out only when I was back to Brazil. Popping in one of my aunt’s house in my hometown, she told me something I didn’t know: that I had a Spanish background from Seville. I surely knew about my Italian roots and I had heard something about Spanish from my mom’s ancestors, but I didn’t know that it was from Andaluzia. I guess the information would have been important during the trip, as to establish even more connection with the place. But I don’t complain, as those days were unforgettable the way they were.

Reflections about Ireland, my return and how many things since then

I came back from Ireland more than two years ago.

As it happened last year (link) I did not manage to write timely as March seems always to be a busy month. However, I did want to write some words in order to reflect on this time.

Readapting to the things I was used to wasn’t easy at all, but I believe that for the first time I am able to see things in perspective without bad or unwanted feelings.

Some months after coming back, the first weeks in Sao Paulo in 2015, I met a guy, friend of a friend, who told me a little about his experience. He lived in different countries, such as Argentina and France, before settling down in Sao Paulo. Describing my mood and doubts at that time, he said: you cannot come back to the reality you had before going abroad. Everything will change, as well as you.

It made sense. All the sense that exists in the world. In a nutshell, I came back in order to escape from a bad situation and my intention was to come back to my old life. Friends, same kind of work, known places, same lifestyle. What my surprise was when those things did not exist anymore. I mean, streets are there, friends are there, but somehow they changed. Most importantly, I changed. The person who took the plane in April 2014 was not at all the person who returned one year later. That conversation in a café in Sao Paulo helped me understand a lot what was going on.

I learned a large range of things since then. Most importantly, I learned to be patient with myself as I finally understood that I went through diverse situations that overwhelmed me.

I had established something in Ireland. Not exactly a routine, far from that actually, but I had my friends, was used to Dublin, was enchanted by that easiness of travelling around in Europe. I was in the middle of a cosmopolitan place and suddenly… It was over. I was back to my hometown in the countryside cross the Atlantic. Miles away from the new world I had achieved. Although I was surrounded by loving and caring people (my family) I soon realised I wanted that life again.

To make matters worse, I made the stupid mistake to stay four months in the countryside in my parent’s house. I don’t precisely hate my hometown, I just don’t want to live there and, come on, spending four months sharing a house with your parents was just the worst decision. I was short of money, but I should’ve tried to come to Sao Paulo right away.

Back in Sao Paulo, I felt that my life was coming back to me. Friends again, my favourite places. The matter, so, was a job. I didn’t have one and I needed one. Then my money was running out and I heard those who suggested looking for a job in a language school?” I didn’t want that at all, but I had to do so.

Amazingly, I enjoyed teaching and started thinking that I could do that permanently. I was almost on the breadline, but somehow the experience was joyful.  It seemed that finally there was something good on the horizon.

 

One of my last pics in Europe. Charles de Gaulle Airport, Paris, 2015

 

When things started improving and I was getting used to my routine, they I quit everything to come back to Journalism, to an opportunity that seemed to be too precious to be true. I tried, I failed and I decided to study for CAE. In other words, I had three different routines during just one year.

In January, after getting my result, I started working again. Since then I have almost a semester doing the same and this is gorgeous. I can make ends meet and despite the fact I feel I should be earning more money (you know, Sao Paulo, everyone is kind of workaholic here) I like my life now. So much that I realised, during a walk in a hot and pleasant evening, that I was happy. Not only that day, but almost every day in 2017. I wasn’t used to that anymore. Quite shocking. Two years with a constant feeling of depression. So much that I marvelled the feeling of peace I was experiencing. More: I noticed I was happier that evening than many days in Ireland.

I still have bad moments when I feel kind of lost and want to cry because it seems I’m not going anywhere (as a 32-year-old woman should be doing), I can’t complain because most of the time I feel good.

I’ll never forget what I lived in Ireland, but I put many things behind – at least I’m trying it. For the first time in ages, I wake up thinking about present stuff and, even better, about the future! If all goes well next year I set off on a new adventure, this time around South America. That means new people, new experiences, a bunch of new feelings, good and probably bad, but new ones.

 

My feet resting in Kinsale, Ireland, 2015, my last weekend in the country

 

I also consider the idea of going back to Ireland for a while. But this is later. Now I have new things to explore, to discover, to live. As I wrote on my Facebook, Ireland was a beautiful chapter. But that one is gone.

At the end of the day, I like the person I turned into. I see my new pics on short trips close to the places I live and I like looking at myself. I see a girl who almost reached the rock bottom but survived and is willing to live more and more.

 

Learning Spanish with online courses – an experience

Today I finally finished the programme Spanish for Beginners held by Future Learn. I started the courses in January and this morning I completed the sixth and last one!

I have to admit I had a strong bias against online courses until 2015 when I had my first experience with Coursera. At that time, I took a course aimed at English teachers. Even though the activities helped me reflect on my role as an instructor, I didn’t enjoy that completely for two reasons. The first: I didn’t have much experience, especially with large classrooms, so I wasn’t able to understand many situations and concepts. Secondly, I had to move house twice during those months, and studying for an online course turned out to be too tough on those conditions.

My second attempt was the next year when I enrolled a course about American Law (that would help me with a previous job). I fell in love with the idea of studying wearing pyjamas, without annoying peers and respecting my own pace. Since then I took courses of English teaching, language acquisition, English for Journalism and so on.

This year, as I decided to take Spanish seriously, I saw the course as an opportunity to brush up my skills and learn a variety of new things.  I had never studied the language properly, and doing a review on the basics improved my abilities considerably. Studying every week and living in a house with hispanoablantes made a difference.

The progress has not been as quick as I imagined, but no worries. I still have the rest of the year to study. At least now I know I’m not going to make the stupid mistakes as I used to.

Having said that, I do recommend this course for those who want some knowledge about this language. Also, if you’re not a native speaker of English (like me) it will give a chance to study two foreign languages at the same time, which in my case was very stimulating.

Backpacking life (8)- The colours and sounds of Lisbon

After two rainy and gloomy days (but still good) in Porto, I took a plane to Lisbon. Yeah, plane. A terrific flight ticket which cost only R$ 9,90 euro (Ryanair, miss that so much).

I arrived in the Portuguese capital in the morning and went to the hostel by underground. I immediately liked the city and I can’t explain why. Perhaps because I came across some attractive and colourful pieces of urban art in the stations and that made a positive impression on me.

The hostel is amazingly located in the centre. I still remember that, after five minutes around those impressive and well-maintained buildings, I regret my decision of staying less than 48 hours in the place. I felt quite stupid because at that time it seemed just obvious that Lisbon must be marvellous.

I left my stuff in the hostel, then a new establishment which occupies a whole floor in a building. The place was way cheap and clean. Plus its good location, it turned out to be one of my best choices during that trip.

Lisbon was almost asking Please explore me, so my moral obligation was to stroll around it. Quickly I reached the coast, in front of a famous square, and I faced that sea, which inspired so many artists to write beautiful poetry and other sorts of literature still studied at school.

It was sunny. It was quite warm. For God’s sake, I fell in love with Lisbon.

I spent the first day to and fro admiring its architecture, food, people, slopes and history. As it would happen months later in Venice, Lisbon enchanted me. As if the place tells you a lot of stories. Each brick, each stone, each trace of painting carries a message from the past.

At midday, almost starving, I looked for a restaurant in some of those touristic areas. Definitely, they don’t rip you off in Lisbon, even though it’s a bit pricier than Porto. You can afford a decent meal for 10 euro in central spots, exactly what I did.  Waiters were smiling and polite – the one who brought my dish asked if I was from Rio, after asking if I was Brazilian. They don’t know the obvious difference between a southern and another one from Rio, that was incredible!  It was awesome to find out these differences between these two same languages.

Satisfied with the meal, I kept my stroll and tcharan! Alfama! It’s impossible to decide which spot was my favourite in Europe, but this neighbourhood was one of them for sure. Although there are loads of visitors there, it preserves its atmosphere of a picturesque village. It’s touristic place but, at the same time, you are around local people doing their chores.

I stopped at a church built where Santo Antonio was born and I bought two gifts, one to my mother and the other to my grandma. Simple postcards, but as I imagined, full of meaning for them. Actually, now this became my criteria for gifts – I only buy them if they will be somehow special for someone. Otherwise, it’s just pointless stuff.

In the evening I was exhausted, but still willing to walk and explore more from Alfama.  Passing by a building, I heard some music coming from its interior. It was traditional Portuguese music. Like in a film! I guess that place was a club and its members were inside dancing, singing and having tons of fun. I rehearsed one or two attempts to go upstairs and see that sample of liveliness, but I was afraid of being intrusive. From time to time I remember that moment and I wish I could have tried at least!

Dead on my feet, I went to the hostel to have some rest. Something I discovered about hostels is that you cannot rely on their description on websites. I mean, some parts of the story will be correct, whereas others might turn out to be bullshit. They also say “we have adaptors”. It’s not true. It’s better to take yours, as I do now.

Anyway, the fact is that I needed an adaptor for my hairdryer. The power points are different in Ireland, where my device was bought. The hostel didn’t have, of course. However, the guy in the reception asked where the hairdryer was from. As I said “Ireland”, he immediately responded: “I’m Irish”. I couldn’t believe that!

Then things made sense. All the time I was wondering why he used to answer me in English when I was using the Portuguese language. At a certain point, I really considered that they had some trouble with my accent and I was near frustration for not being able to use my own tongue there.

The Irish fellow kindly lent me his personal adaptor. After giving it back, we started chatting away. The Irish love talking and I pretty much love them because of that too. He told me that he was from Kerry and was in Lisbon as a volunteer. Many people are doing that these days, but it was such a coincidence bumping into an Irish guy in Portugal. In result, I spent almost all the time in the hostel in Lisbon talking to an Irish person in English. A bit weird, but I still needed to practise more my second language than my native one, so it was great. Also because he came across as a lovely fellow – as the majority of Irish people I’ve met so far. He wasn’t good-looking, but he’s that kind of guy who’s so down-to-earth and chatty that becomes attractive. It’s stunning how Irish men are particularly talented at coming across as attractive regardless appearance.

The next day and my last one in Lisbon, I continued my mission to see as many things as possible in the place. In the morning I went to visit Belem Tower and its region. Unfortunately, it was Monday and the building was closed. At least I saved some euros, which were used to have lunch in a restaurant quite near there.

Here, it’s honest to mention that I passed in front of Pasteis de Belen, the well-known bakery where you can prove some of those traditional Portuguese sweets. However, I was put off by the number of foreigners inside. I’m far from that kind of traveller who classifies experiences between REAL and UNREAL regarding the level of locals involved. In my point of view, travelling is personal and it’s up to you to define what is good or bad. Back to the point of the bakery, for me it was bad and I really wanted to be around the Portuguese fellows at that time. In result, I chose a normal restaurant, somewhat cheap and with plastic tables, to see what they eat on a typical Monday. The food was delicious. What a great way to start the week.

One of my favourite photos of all trips – close to Belem Tower

I went back to the centre to explore some more streets. One of the things I loved most in Lisbon was the name of the streets. You find “Rua Augusta” (Augusta Steet), the same one you see in Sao Paulo. Also, there are some names which are extremely poetic and I believe you only understand its beauty if you speak Portuguese. Lucky I am.

In the evening, I had my last meal in a bakery close to the hostel. Then the weirdest moment came up. The waitress didn’t manage to understand me. Neither was I. Eventually I noticed that she was almost rude and angry with me, and it wasn’t my fault at all! I wonder that she thought I was a non-native speaker of Portuguese trying to speak the language or something like that. I would say that after this incident I stopped to freak out about my listening in English due to the impossibility to understand that girl.

Later, more awkwardness. At the bus station, I didn’t manage to understand the signs written in Portuguese. I wish they had been written in English or Spanish because then they would be somehow understandable. I’d never seen those expressions before. I tried to ask information and the guys there were bad-mannered as well. Gosh! What a bad ending. In some moments, though, I took the bus where I would have to get some sleep until to reach the last country in the schedule: Spain.

Seville was waiting for me and I felt on top of the world.

Why I want to be an explorer

Some time ago I watched one of the best videos I’ve come across about travelling. The lecturer, Tomislav Perko, is a Croatian guy who hit the road after losing his job during the international crisis in 2008.

His story is much the same of other backpackers, who have been using Couchsurfing, Workaway and similar websites in order to minimise their expenses during a trip. With almost no money, he spent five years on the road, discovering places, cultures and other ways of life.

Nowadays there are loads of people who became digital nomads or something like that, and their speech is quite undistinguishable. Is your job boring? Quit it. Are you happy? Change it. Leave your comfort zone. However, such big changes are not that easy for many across the globe, and at the end of the day, their “inspiration” becomes bullshit. In other words, I’m sick of all this “guidance”.

However, Perko came across as a humble guy, different from the majority of travellers these days, who seem to be full of themselves to pay attention to the world that exists outside their stories and adventures.

I’d say that the whole talk is inspiring, but something almost at the end struck me: the idea that we can be explorers exactly where we are. It’s always time to take a new street, try a different type of food in your own town or meet up new fellows.

His definition matches exactly with my viewpoint about being an explorer rather than a traveller. I don’t need to take a plane or a bus or even hitchhike to be fulfilled because all its beauty is already around me. For sure I appreciate the opportunity to go overseas as much as I can, but I can’t be put off by the idea that there is nothing else to be seen in my own region, for example.

That’s why I always look for new spots to visit in Sao Paulo, my current city, and in its surroundings. Since I came back from Europe with this different mindset I’ve been to so many outstanding towns, and I still have many to set foot in.

Now, not only is my goal for life to visit lots of countries, but also stick to the concept that life happens everywhere and we don’t need to wait to begin the change we want.

Backpacking life (7) – On the slopes of Porto

After buzzing around in London, I headed for Porto, one of the most famous Portuguese cities.

At this point, I need to admit that Portugal wasn’t on the list of countries I wanted to visit the most in Europe. I attribute this to a (wrong) idea that the place wouldn’t be as interesting as others due to its similarities with Brazil.

However, I included it after many friends had described Portugal as a wonderful place to set foot in. First, I decided to add Lisbon to my precious list. Later, I included Porto too. People said I wouldn’t be disappointed – and they were absolutely right.

After a trouble-free flight, I arrived at Porto in the evening, and the experience taught me how adventurous this choice can be.

I passed with no difficulties through the immigration – the guy just asked my address in the city and made a joke about our same mother tongue. The machine to buy underground tickets bothered me a little, but eventually, I could get mine. I finally took the train – a very old one – and then the drama started.

I simply copied the address of the WRONG hostel. The street’s name was right, but my underground directions were incorrect. I made a huge confusion because the names were disgracefully similar. I booked my bed at Cool Hostel, while the other one is called So Cool. To make matters worse, they weren’t near at all. It should be against the law two hostels with practically the same name because it’s just a hell for absent-minded people like me.

It was almost midnight and I didn’t know where to get off. I was trying to be calm, but it was quite impossible. In the end, some guys on the underground helped me to find out the station which would be more suitable to me. I wanted to reach the hostel quickly, so I tried to take a taxi. I tried, but the taxi driver refused to drive me there. He said it was too close and gave me some directions. He was sort of rude, what scared me and made me walk, even though I knew it could be dangerous at that time.

In addition, it was raining. What a nightmare. I was just wondering if my mom knew about that. She’d put a straight-jacket on me.

Fortunately, people speak Portuguese there

So relieved I was when I rang the bell. I apologised to the receptionist, who was very kind and showed me the hostel. The place was cool, colourful, with a friendly atmosphere. I was dead on my feet, so I would look at everything the next day. I just wanted a shower, a cosy bed and some sleep.

What an amazing Saturday when you wake up in Porto! Lots of slopes to be explored, and magnificent architecture to be appreciated. At breakfast, I met two guys, one from Australia and another from Germany. I don’t remember very well the Australian lad, but the German one, oh my God. Good-looking to say the least. Blonde, blue eyes, charming, marvellous smile, tall, I just wanted to visit Germany as soon as possible.

We had that normal small talk and it was fun. I ate a lot as the food was very good and I went to stroll around. The weather was gloomy, but it wasn’t raining.

It’s interesting when you visit London and, then, you go to Porto because it seems you go back in time about 200 years. Porto is way old. Its buildings, structures, monuments, atmosphere… Even the language for me, as our Brazilian Portuguese sounds to us much more modern in a certain way. I was delighted. Actually, I was visiting a country that was somehow the beginning of my country, at least according to the official history.

I went up and down on the slopes and I finally saw the river. I’d seen that image for ages and I was there at the end of the day.

I crossed the bridge, exactly when the rain came heavier. I had my blue raincoat, what I bought especially for that trip. It was windy too, what annoyed a bit me because of the pictures.

I got lost at the other part of Porto (I’d do the same in lots of places), but I found my way back very fast.

Something very funny happened at this time. I entered a sort of a cultural centre and the guy responsible for me place talked to me in English. Without realising, I answered in English too. It was ridiculous, but I was shy to tell him I could speak Portuguese, so I just pretended that I needed a lingua franca to communicate there.

Back to main Porto, I visited some more places before a break to have lunch. I learned how to appreciate Portuguese food in Brazil, because of the stepfather of an ex-boyfriend. In Portugal, of course, I wanted some fish. I was particularly keen on codfish. Choosing a restaurant to eat is always the most irritating part of my trips because I just cannot decide where to go. Many options, many people in all the places, pricey menus…  At least in Portugal you’re not likely to be ripped off as in London, for instance, so there’s a clear advantage.

Eventually, I found a restaurant in the centre, away from the crowds, and with excellent prices. There was no codfish, but the waiter, a distinctive and polite guy, told me in that lovely Portuguese accent that they had a special dish with sardines. I gave it a try and it turned out to be perhaps the best meal I had during my whole time in Europe. Sardines with some potatoes, vegetables and delicious sauce. A glass of wine too, of course. It was out of this world. I’m writing this and I can feel the taste of that indescribable food, which cost less than 5 euros – the biggest bargain in the world.

In the afternoon, the same routine. Visiting places and stopping for a while in order to avoid the insisting rain. I had the impression that my camera wasn’t working properly, but I had the mobile too. I tried not to overthink about that.

Back to the hostel, I decided to see what was going on with the camera. In London, I went to a cybercafé (nice name for that awful place) and I copied all the pictures for one of my storage clouds.  I intended to do the same in Porto, but the card didn’t want to open. I couldn’t believe my eyes. I couldn’t access my gorgeous pictures from FOUR days of London and that one in Porto. I tried to open it in lots of ways and, eventually, I gave up. I had told a friend what happened and he promised to help me in Dublin in my return (I just could recover my pictures months later in Brazil)

The German guy from the hostel had invited me to have dinner with him in a restaurant famous for its francesinha, a kind of huge hamburger with an egg on top and chips. It seemed an excellent way to stop freaking out because of the pictures and have some craic with that stunning companion.

We queued up a little in front of the place and it wasn’t bad because the guy was so charming and so pleasant to talk with. We laughed about the differences between Brazilian and German cultures and the weird World Cup Match with its 7×1 (for them).

Our table was ready, and we finally order our francesinhas. When the dishes came we were quite surprised with the size. It’s enormous. I couldn’t help thinking how many calories and how much cholesterol there were in each of those sandwiches, but that didn’t stop me eating that appetising meal. It was so tasty! It was an enjoyable evening, and thank goodness I love travelling alone, otherwise it would be harder to have moments like that one when out of the blue you meet people and share a meal with them.

On Sunday, the guy headed for Lisbon, but as I’m an idiot I didn’t ask him any contact. He didn’t ask mine either. We said goodbye to each other when he left the hostel, I finished my breakfast and continued exploring the city. The weather was a bit better, so I went back to the river to take more pictures. I’m fascinated by picturesque places, and it was so nice to see and remember now each window and each door, as well small shops and restaurants, and people and their peculiar way of life, where nobody really seemed to hurry.

As many places I visited, I quickly discovered why so many people like Porto and Portugal. It seems there are treasures hidden all over the place. I remember that I saw a church close to the river and I decided to go into to see how it was. Outside, the building was not exceptional but inside… one of the most outstanding temples I’ve seen in my life. It was a mix of gold, saints and endless details. I just wonder how many places like that you can find in small Portuguese cities, for example.

On Monday it would be time to travel to Lisbon (€ 9,90, love ya Ryanair) very early, so I went to bed quite soon to have some sleep and enjoy those good feelings that only trips can produce on you.

CAE: It’s done!

After two years studying, I finally got my Cambridge English Advanced certificate – and I don’t have words to described how fulfilled I feel right now.

I took the exam in December, and the result was released yesterday in the morning. I was trembling when I accessed the information related to my inscription. I was afraid of bad news, but I succeeded: I scored 199, which gives me grade B. It’s just one point from reaching the C2 level, the known “mastery” of the language. I couldn’t believe my eyes. One point, come on, in practice, I’m already proficient!

As I wrote on my Facebook, people don’t have any idea about how important a certificate like this is for me. I started learning English quite late in life (well-off children study it when they are in the kindergarten) and it has been a struggle for so many years.

Apart from feeling that I could learn by myself at ease (after quitting a regular course), I wasn’t able to speak. I mean, I could a little, but it wasn’t enough for a real conversation, especially with someone with a good accent or a native speaker. That situation made me suffer so much.

Related to this, an episode is an emblematic point in my life. I still remember the evening when I met a friend of mine and some of her friends in a bar in Sao Paulo. There was a foreign person on the table with us, while the others were Brazilians. All of them could speak perfect English. They have lived abroad, they have travelled, studied the language for ages… On the other hand, I had no confidence to speak in front of them. My listening at that time was terrible too, and so nervous I was to speak in front of them. I gave an excuse and I went home. Inside, I was devastated and I did believe I couldn’t speak English during my life.

Until the day I went to Ireland, whose people helped me, since the beginning, to find out that my English was better than average, almost advanced. Honestly, I didn’t know that, and now I know I suffered for nothing. Quickly I received more and more praises, particularly from English speakers, who said my level was amazing, great and tremendous.

Having said that, my CAE is not just a certificate for me. It’s a certainty that I rose to the challenge and the best proof I could have to know that I need to trust myself.

Now CPE is just around the corner. I don’t know when, but I’ll get it.

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Backpacking life (6) – The hustle and bustle of London

London was one of the cities that I wanted to visit most in the world. If I had to choose only one place to go outside Ireland, I’d struggle between the English capital and Paris. Thank goodness I could visit dozens of locations.

I headed for London by bus (all my love, Megabus) after spending three days in Cardiff. I left Wales on a Friday evening in November 2014.

I was wax euphoric – not only I was travelling but I was also about to set foot in one of the most famous places around the world. During the journey, I could hardly believe that, within three hours and a half, I’d be there.

So far I remember my own feeling when the bus approached London and I realised we were already in the city. I saw the lights, the outdoors, the buildings, everything seemed magic. It was sort of feeling at the centre of the world. You are where loads of things happen.

It was a dream that came true, definitely.

We arrived at the bus station and, on the street, I asked for some information in order to get the underground. I found myself quite cool for buying a travel card and getting the train without any trouble. There were people all over the place, exactly as I’d imagined a busy spot in London.

As it was about 10 PM, I went directly to the hostel. It was quite difficult to find something reasonable without spending one arm and a leg, but a friend helped me with the booking.

It was in Candem Town, one of the coolest districts in London, where I read somewhere that Amy Winehouse and Sex Pistols used to be around. However, the hostel was cheesy and terrible.

The street was way dark, and I asked two guys in front of a house if they knew where the hostel was. One of them pulled my leg – he said the hostel had closed at ten o’clock, a very bad joke, but I was in London, and even the bad jokes were nice. Later, I discovered the lad was from Tunisia (I heard him speaking Arabic). Somehow I liked him and I really wanted to talk to him, but I was too shy for that, and I thought it was better to let it go.

In the room, I met my first “roommate”, one of the most inspiring fellows I came across during the trip. She was an American woman, aged 62, who had just left the US “for a change”. She had left family behind in order to start a new life in the United Kingdom. She was absolutely calm telling me that, what turned the fact even more amazing. I remember her quite often when I think I’m getting old for some things.

She asked if I knew about jobs in London, but, good Lord, I had just arrived in the city.

I told her the hostel was bad, but it could be worse. I also explain my way of dealing with hostels: always wait for the worst-case scenario. If you find out that the room is clean, and facilities are good, you’re a lucky person, and the satisfaction is guaranteed.

When I told her my philosophy, she said I was a wise girl. What’s more, that was wonderful to be so wise and so young at the same time. Receiving such praise from a woman like her was just tremendous.

In order to get the best discounts in the hostel, I booked beds in different rooms in three nights I’d sleep there. At the end of the day, all, of them showed to be cramped and unpleasant.

In the first day. I went to visit The Portobello Road, the famous market in Nothing Hill, and in the afternoon I strolled around some parks. Quickly I was involved in the cosmopolitan atmosphere – something that I appreciate pretty much living in Sao Paulo – and I thought that it would be awesome to live in London for a while. I can’t imagine how many things you can learn in a metropolis like that.

On Sunday, I got up early to visit the market which’s famous due to its flowers, something I like very much. From there, I walked towards Brick Lane, one of the well-known spots among cool people in London. Again, I was struck by the diversity.

After that, I went for a stroll along the River Thames. That part of the English capital became my favourite because it’s one of the places where I could feel “the London from old times”, a bit of Oliver Twist in the air.

In the evening, there was a thematic Walking Tour scheduled about Jack the Stripper. I loved the idea, but I couldn’t find the group – I guess it wasn’t active at that time of the year.

Instead, I went to walk around London Tower, which attracted lots of people. At that year, 2014, they were celebrating a century of the beginning of I World War. As a result, events were happening all over Britain to celebrate the victims.

I had imagined London similar to Sao Paulo in many aspects, but honestly, there’s no comparison. London is much cleaner and safer. Besides, it’s very organized, which is quite surprising for such a big city.

In my third day – the last in the hostel – I went to and fro in Candem Town. I loved that place.

From there I went to visit a palace (just outside because my budget wouldn’t allow me to go into) and, then, I headed for Big Ben. It’s just a clock, but it’s iconic and I didn’t stop until I got a good selfie with the symbol.

In the evening, I went to meet a new friend, a Couchsurfer who would host me for the next three nights. It was the first time I used the site to be hosted somewhere. I was a bit afraid of sleeping in a stranger’s house, especially of a man, but the experience turned out to be one of the best of my trip.

Nad and his friend are from Bangladesh, but they had been living in the  UK for ages. Both were very nice with me, and it was priceless to share stories and perceptions with new friends.

Also, they live near Tower London, a very convenient location.

These days I went to visit what would be one of my favourite places in London, the Borough Market. AWESOME.

I bought some food from Ethiopia there – I paid only 5 pounds for a large box of traditional food, which consisted of some vegetables and rice. Delicious.

I went back to their market twice and to tell the truth I wanted to put it in my bag.

Another place that struck me was the Click Prison Museum. So creepy, so dark, so fantastic. No wonder is near the river, where some small and famous crimes used to take place.

(Thank goodness I could recover the pictures because they’re almost as great as the place itself)

Another museum where I learned lots of things was The Museum of London, especially about the Great Fire that consumed a huge part of the city in 1666.

In the last day, I visited National Gallery, which is gorgeous if you like paintings (as I do). It wasn’t that crowded, so it was possible to see the artworks. Of course, there’s always an irritating and ridiculous person trying to take a selfie with a portrait, what eventually annoys me very much.

From there I headed for British Museum, which I wish I can visit again in the future with not so many awful people. Tourists taking pictures with dinosaurs and this kind of stuff. The place is enormous, so it’s impossible to see everything in one day. Aware of that, I went directly to see the Egyptian section. The mummy of Cleopatra is there and I wanted to hug everyone and cry because that is so fucking amazing. Then I realized that no one seemed interested in that piece of marvel. Well, good for me, no concurrence.

Still, in the shop museum, I decided not to be mean and I bought a ten-euro book about mummification. It’s still on my shelves waiting to be read.

In the evening, I took a bus to reach the airport to take a flight to Porto. The girl who I had to show my documentation in the airport symbolized all the arrogance that a Latin person might find in England. Without speaking any word, she just gave me a dirty look. I’m glad she was the only one like that I came across in Europe.

I liked London, but actually, I thought that I would fall in love with the city, and that didn’t happen. I mean, I enjoyed my trip very much and I wish I can go back as soon as possible, as well I’d like the chance to live there too because it’s exciting. However, it didn’t hit on me (I would feel that later when I visited Paris). If I had spent more time there, perhaps…

It was time to say goodbye to the United Kingdom and advance in my trip. Next stop, Portugal.

 

Inspiring reading (5)

For over three months I’ve been trying to write and post a list of nice links I came across, what says a lot about my life last weeks.

Things have started to change (in a positive way) and I intend to write about that as well.

So far, here it’s the list of some inspiring news 🙂

Bridges built by the ancients that are still in use today – Old structures that amaze everyone who loves history. Glad to realize I’ve walked over four of them 🙂

What are people working on in coffee shops – Some nice stories and thoughts about working in coffee shops (a habit that I acquired over the last year)

The top 4 questions people I’m asked when I say I’m asexual – Some feeling and perceptions from an asexual person

Asexuality needs to be recognized as its own, unique sexual orientation – To know more about asexuality

Stop pretending everyone can travel – Just love this article. To travel you do need much more than “inspiration” or a “positive mindset”, as the author points out very well.

This village without roads is straight out of a fairytale book – Nothing to say, just to feel ❤

 

 

Backpacking life (5) – Cardiff, a trip in the land of castles

Back to the memories of my first trip around Europe in 2014.

After four days in Scotland, it was time to travel to the second country on the list, Wales – the magic land of castles.

 

Centre of Cardiff, capital of Wales

 

My first idea was to visit the north of Wales because I wanted to see the amazing Conwy Castle (have a look at the pictures and you’ll understand why I wished to go there so desperately).

However, it’d be way complicated to get there from Glasgow, where I was previously, so painfully I travelled directly to Cardiff. I’d decided to set foot in all the capitals, so I stick to my original “plan”. I thought that I could visit Conwy along with Manchester later, what turned out to be impossible eventually. Ok, next time.

From Glasgow, I headed for Cardiff on a night bus. As I wrote before, it was freezing in the Scottish city, so I was expecting the arrival of the bus very much.

The bus station was quite empty, and the only two guys I talked to were from somewhere in Eastern Europe, Serbia or Croatia. The backpackers were travelling around with a budget that I guess was smaller than mine. They were stopping at each city, where they spent only one day. They musicians seemed sort of gypsy and gave me their contact because we’d be in London at the same time. I wouldn’t call them at all as they looked somehow creepy, so just I smiled. Meeting odd people is part of the craic.

About the bus again: I wanted the bus to come quickly because of the cold, even though I was a bit upset with the idea of spending the whole night travelling on a seat. That’s bad. I mean, it’s good cause you’re travelling and crossing borders, but it’s bad because fucking hell it’s not my bed.

When the bus came, a lot of people came in and I went to look for my miserable place. A company’s man guided me upstairs, and I couldn’t believe my eyes: there were BEDS on that bus. BEDS. That meant that I’d lie during the night, instead of making that sort of contortionism finding a way to sleep.

 

Squirrels are common in the UK – I made a huge effort to photograph this guy

 

A nice girl lied on my left in order to avoid the awkward situation to have a guy beside me but, honestly, I was so exultant with the idea of having a BED for me during the journey to Cardiff that I’d give a fuck. The devil could be there. I just wanted to have some rest.

It was a bit strange to sleep that way, I mean, lying down on a “bed” because you can feel the road “below you” in a certain way, but better than nothing.

We arrived in Wales earlier than expected (British timetable), and it was still dark. Everyone got off, and I didn’t have a clue about how to get to my hostel. A few people remained on the bus stop. I asked for some help to reach at least the city centre, from which my hostel would be near. A guy from Sudan (or another African country, I really can’t remember) said he was going to the centre in order to get a bus, so I followed him.

He was nice, and we sat on a seat to chat a little while we waited for the sun. It was cold, but at that moment I was somehow used to the weather. He told me he visited Ireland and Northern Ireland – in the last, he didn’t have a nice experience, unfortunately, where he could experience racism.

 

A gorgeous building in Cardiff

 

When the sun appeared, he said he’d help me to find my hostel. That’s fine. I could do that on my own, but I didn’t refuse the offer. He said he knew the place quite well as he has lived there for a while, but eventually, we got lost. I tried to get information but it didn’t work. To make matters worse, Cardiff has the worst sign system ever – don’t ask me why because I can’t explain that – and I did miss a map or at least internet on my mobile phone.

 

Calm and quiet

 

The guy offered me his house twice, and at the second time I rebuffed his purpose quite harshly. I didn’t want his house, I wanted the fucking hostel I already booked. I wouldn’t go to the place of a completely strange person, especially a man. I think he wasn’t a bad man, he just wanted to be nice and protective (what I hate it).

At the end of the day, I could find the hostel. It was a common one, the staff members a bit rude, but I wouldn’t live there forever anyway. I just left my backpack in the luggage room and went to explore the city. We were close to the centre, but there were lots of “curves” on the way to the hostel. I got lost twice more – even with a map.

I went to have breakfast in the centre and I went for a stroll. The place was different and I felt gorgeous for being in Wales, where you can see some kind of aristocracy all over the place. I loathe nobility and stuff related to it, but in Britain, these things just seem great. Mysteries.

 

I loved these colourful seats near the market

 

I visited a tourism centre to grab a map and get some tips about the place. From there, I headed for Cardiff Bay by bus. The spot is great, simple and quite at the same time. Exactly what I wanted at that time, a nice place to lay around.

 

I couldn’t imagine a better place to chill out

 

Back to the hostel, I met my “roommates”, two funny and extrovert guys from Australia. We spent dinner time having a chinwag, but I confess that their accent was a hard one go understand. I lost lots of information that I hope weren’t important.

The next day I went to visit two castles ❤ with one of the guys. I’m an awful person because I don’t remember his name.

The first castle was Coch. A nice one, but I told the guy I wasn’t that impressed. He thought I was a bit snobbish, and I think I might be that.

 

Impressive, but not that much

I love going up and down in castles

 

It was raining slightly, but it didn’t affect my mood at all.

We had lunch in a picturesque pub in a village and, from there we took a bus to Caerphilly.

 

The pub where I ate some good pasta with the Australian partner

 

Oh my God. Then I was impressed. I didn’t go to see the castles in the north, but that wonderful building was in front of me. The Australian guy was staring at me as if I was crazy because I was jumping and taking selfies out of control. I don’t blame him. Such an unbelievable place.

 

Oh my God – that one impressed me very much!

 

There’s a nice animation that explains some facts about the castle and its history, one of the most interesting short films I’ve seen so far.

 

Having tons of fun – visiting a castle like that was a dream

 

On the third day, I went to visit an open museum which reproduces the old way of life in Wales. Actually, it’s a farm with some replicas of houses and structures used in farming. It’s a fascinating spot – even with crazy students running around.

I took a bus to go back to the city and it was pretty nice because there were some old sirs and ladies on it. A countryside atmosphere.

 

The village close to the open museum

 

 

An old graveyard is something that fascinates me

 

In the afternoon, I strolled around the centre again. Nice place definitely. I was about to visit busier cities after that, so it was great to be in a spot not packed with tourists.

I particularly loved this market, where I could buy some sweets and local food.

 

Markets are always kind of heart in a city

 

In the afternoon, I went to visit Cardiff castle. The rain was quite annoying but bearable. The story of the castle is amazing.

 

Awesome

 

Among their several functions along the time, it was used as a shelter for the Welsh population during the First World War. As you walk along its corridors, you listen to a Piaf’s song that takes you back to that time. There are old objects too that might have belonged to those fellows. Quite gruesome.

 

One of the posters inside the castle

 

I strongly recommend Cardiff if people want a relaxing place. I guess there are a few medium cities in the United Kingdom where you can be around local people. Just one of those great castles I’ve seen it’s worth a visit 🙂

Next stop, London, the magic and shinning capital of the world.